Ep. 109 - What to do when your kid refuses to do what they said they would!
I don’t need to tell you how aggravating this moment in parenting is. You’ve made the agreement, your kid got a win, all you’re asking for is for them to follow through and now they’re NOT🤬 We’ve all been there and usually that creates quite a power struggle.
In this episode I’m breaking it ALLLLLL down. I’m giving you not only telling you how to set yourself up for success but I’m also giving you the exact steps to handle their pushback effectively.
This is a MUST LISTEN!
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